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Inner Authority, Why Does it Matter?

Do you know what inner authority is? Your inner authority is like your gut talking to you and you listening to it. It's the feeling you may have to get on a plane or to decide to drive to your destination, it just feels right. Your inner authority often steers you...

Outer Authority Demand vs. Command

In my opinion, 2020 has been the year of the new decade of hope clashing with authority running unchecked. You have seen police brutality up close, protesting across the nation, and local and federal government response. Authority by itself hasn't always been seen as...

Remember Your Are Essential

Remember this the next time you are feeling worried, down, or frustrated with the state of our world. It doesn't matter what has happened to you in the past. It doesn't matter what didn't happen to you in the past.  It doesn't matter what your family says, your...

Your Innovative Voice

  It’s been a few months since I have last posted. I had been in a writer’s deep dive immersion exploring, synthesizing, and calibrating my innovative voice. Now I am thrilled to reveal what I have learned about my process with the hardworking men and women that...

Your Greatest Partner

  Do you know who is your greatest partner? If they arrived today and you had a chance encounter would you even recognize them? Some of my clients say, “ I don’t know” or “ I haven’t thought about it?” I’m asking this important question now and do you have an...

A Manager’s Guide to Empathy vs. Sympathy

“The first criteria of being a leader is to practice empathy - the ability to understand and share the feelings of another.” Simon Sinek I have worked with several stressed out and overwhelmed managers that try to figure out how to help their troubled or distressed...

How much are you willing to trust your partner?

I am Orgasmic Meditation Practitioner, otherwise, known as an OMer. I have been practicing orgasmic meditation for over a year and a half. I came to learn about orgasmic meditation from a writing coach that felt this practice increased clarity in her life, increased...

When a good person meets a bad system, the system always wins…

"When a good person meets a bad system, the system always wins." - Frank Voehl" In light of our current political or corporate climate we may believe this quote on a bad day. I remember hearing over and over early on in my career that “absolute power corrupts...

How to Reset your Career in times of Layoffs

Have you ever been laid off? If you have or feared you might be it’s often the most devastating professional experience you can have. One of my clients expressed to me that getting laid off wasn’t a good thing. She said it was like “being thrown into a murky red sea...

3 Keys to Calibrate Your Enthusiasm

Do you wake-up day after day feeling bored, exhausted, tired, or just plugging along? Do you try to feel enthusiastic in front of your boss or in front of your employees? Have your mastered your faux enthusiastic smile? I used to be like that I was so disconnected...